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for growth-minded professionals who want to master healthy relationship skills without losing who they are.

BREAK YOUR PATTERNS!!! And stop repeating them, with monthly live coaching, real-time support, and a guest expert every month.

Join the BEAM MASTERMIND

Surround yourself with curious, growth-minded people and become the person who breaks the pattern.

To Become & Choose Emotionally Available…

If you've landed on this page, you've already done the work. Therapy. Books. Maybe a 12-step program. Maybe a retreat or two. You're not new to this.

But...you're still here.

What if

In BEAM mastermind you could stop understanding your patterns in theory and finally stop living them in real life?

HERE'S THE THING — YOU CAN.

Pattern recognition

See if any of this resonates with you

You're self-aware, but stuck

You know why you do what you do. You just can't seem to stop doing it.

You're tired of holding it all together

You hold it together at work, at family dinners, on the third date. Nobody sees what it costs you to always seem "fine."

You feel behind

You watch people your age settle into the kind of partnership or career you want, and some part of you wonders if you missed the window.

You're over-functioning without noticing

You over-give, over-explain, over-think and you call it caring. It's actually a pattern that's costing you peace.

You end the relationship in your head

You overthink and overreact in the situation. You assume what they meant and shut down. You pull away instead of having the conversation.

You don't have enough

You are stuck in the belief that you don't have enough money and will never have enough money. You are stuck between buying now before it runs out or saving a lot and being too rigid.

You're tired of doing this alone

Therapy is private. Books are solitary. You haven't had a room of people who actually get it, you can practice with, and get feedback — until now.

If you answered yes to any of the above, you're in the right spot.

We're here to help you change the STORY.

Introducing

The BEAM

A mastermind for growth-minded professionals who want to master healthy relationship skills without losing who they are.

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The BEAM mastermind gives you ongoing, real-time support to practice the relationship skills you already understand, so the insight turns into change.

What you'll practice

What will you practice in BEAM

These aren't just concepts you'll learn. They're skills you'll practice every week inside a mastermind designed to help you create healthier relationships for life.

Speaking up instead of staying silent
Work through your own patterns in real time
Choosing clarity over mind-reading
Trust yourself and your decisions
Communicating clearly and confidently
Handling conflict without blocking, ending chat, or disappearing
The difference between healthy discomfort and toxic discomfort
Set a boundary without over-explaining, apologizing, or guilt
Stop overthinking and assuming
Listening to understand, not to react
Recognize real compatibility
Stay regulated in conflict instead of shutting down or escalating
Ask for what you need clearly, without people pleasing or hinting
Build healthier relationships in every area of your life
Why mastermind is one of the most important parts of lasting change

Dagmar Kusiak

Founder, Break the Patterns™ · Host, Becoming Emotionally Available Podcast

Who is Dagmar, and why should you care?

Dagmar came to this work through heartbreak, not theory.

A few months before her wedding, her engagement ended. What followed wasn't just grief, it was years of blaming her parents, distrusting men, cutting people off, and wondering why she kept ending up in the same painful patterns.

She tried therapy, 12-step programs, church, coaching, and personal development. Yet the same dynamics kept showing up in different forms— relationships, work, and even business.

Then one insight changed everything: she didn't have a partner problem. She had an avoidance problem.

For years, she'd mastered achievement and independence while avoiding vulnerability, conflict, and her own emotions. Once she saw the walls she'd built, she finally understood why she felt stuck.

Today, she helps others build the relationship skills she wishes she'd learned years earlier.

"My approach isn't 'here's what to do.' It's helping people get clear enough to find their own answers."

~ Dagmar ~

The difference

How is this mastermind different from Dating Apps or Social Media Groups?

The vision behind BEAM is simple:

Create a place to practice healthy relationship skills in real life, challenge your blind spots, learn from different perspectives, and build meaningful connections with people who are just as committed to growth as you are. Because healthy relationships aren't built by consuming more information. They're built through practice, reflection, and mastermind.

New this month

A new expert in the room, every month

This isn't just Dagmar's framework. Every month, we bring in a guest speaker to expand how you think about growth, connection, and becoming who you're meant to be.

First up

A professional speaker and trainer from Tony Robbins' organization — the world's leading name in personal development — joins the mastermind in JULY for a live session on breaking through the limiting beliefs that get in the way of real connection.

This is the access that usually comes with a much bigger price tag.

Inside BEAM, it's already included.

Monthly guest experts who accelerate your growth

Most people try to figure out relationships alone.

And while information can help, transformation often happens much faster when you learn directly from people who have spent years helping others create real change.

That's why every month, we bring in carefully selected guest experts to help shape your growth journey.

Not motivational talks you'll forget by next week.

Experts whose work directly supports your ability to build healthier relationships, trust yourself more, communicate better, and create deeper connections without losing who you are.

You'll gain access to perspectives, frameworks, and practical tools that would normally cost hundreds or even thousands of dollars to learn elsewhere.

And because these sessions happen inside the BEAM mastermind, you'll have the opportunity to take what you learn and immediately apply it with support from the mastermind and Dagmar's coaching. And the coolest part is that you get the feedback.

Our first guest expert

Stu Massengill

International Speaker & Trainer for Tony Robbins

For more than 10 years, Stu has worked alongside Tony Robbins, helping thousands of people break through limiting beliefs, build confidence, and create lasting transformation in their lives.

If you're successful in your career but find relationships harder than they should be…

This workshop IS designed for you.

Peak Performance In Relationships

In this exclusive BEAM guest training, Stu will help you:

What you'll walk away with

Build confidence in your decisions and trust yourself again
Break through limiting beliefs that keep you stuck
Stop overthinking and start taking aligned action
Overcome fear of rejection and scarcity thinking
Maintain your authenticity while creating deeper connections
Develop a stronger sense of self in dating and relationships
Learn how to choose healthier partners and healthier relationships
Create the mindset needed for fulfilling relationships and meaningful connections

You'll leave with practical tools, greater self-awareness, and a clear path forward.

Because success at work and in relationships requires different skill sets, this workshop helps you develop both.

New guest experts will continue to be added throughout the year to help you strengthen the relationship skills, confidence, communication, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence that impact every area of your life.

What's included

Want real, ongoing support? We've got you.

Mentorship: A monthly live Call

A live Q&A call where you bring what's stuck — dating, family, work — and get direct coaching from Dagmar. Plus a live roleplay call, where you practice the conversation you've been avoiding before it actually counts.

Real-time access, Mon–Fri

Something happens… a date, a triggering text, a hard moment with your boss. Drop it in the private Telegram channel and get guidance while it's actually happening.

Monthly guest speaker series

A new expert joins the mastermind every month, starting with a trainer from Tony Robbins' team, to deepen the work from a fresh angle.

A growing resource library

New tools, templates, and pattern-rewiring exercises are added monthly, based on what the mastermind is actually working through that month.

Foundational courses, built in

A full course on setting boundaries without over-explaining, and a full course on becoming emotionally available, plus scripts and templates for real conversations.

Community

Growth-minded professionals doing the work, not talking about growth, living inside it. You don't have to explain the basics here.

BEAM Mastermind: It's a mastermind for growth-minded professionals who want to master healthy relationship skills without losing who they are.

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Members

What members are saying

I signed up for coaching with Dagmar after listening to her in a workshop. After failed relationships and years in therapy, I felt stuck and needed a different approach. We did a 5 week introductory session that made me aware of my patterns in relationships and she gave me tools to work through my insecurities and anxiety. I've never seen such tools that actually work! I signed on to her signature 6 month program and am confident I will be in a healthy relationship.

Dave Verdon

Retired SACADA Specialist in Oil & Gas

Dagmar employs insightful tools and a healthy approach that I've never encountered before. As a Vietnam veteran, I often find myself set in my ways, but Dagmar's skillful guidance has helped me explore new perspectives on dating and courtship. I highly recommend Dagmar and her innovative workshops for anyone looking to navigate relationships with a fresh outlook.

Mike Martin

Holistic Health Biz Owner

Dagmar is an incredible coach! Through her guidance, I gained a deep understanding of my attachment patterns and how they were impacting my relationships. Her insights helped me recognize and transform those patterns, leading to a stronger, healthier connection. I'm so grateful for the clarity and growth I've achieved with her support!

Jennifer Lara

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For you if

Who this is for

Growth minded overthinkers who want to interrupt their behaviors and have better relationships
People who want to learn relationship skills without losing their authenticity
People who want to get curious about their patterns instead of harsh with themselves
Anyone tired of carrying this alone, ready for a room of people on the same path
Anyone who's already done real inner work and is ready to practice

Not for you if

Who this is not for

Someone who wants to be told exactly what to do with no room to question it
Someone who isn't ready to look at their own part in the pattern yet
Someone looking for a one-time fix instead of ongoing practice
Someone who wants groupthink instead of getting closer to who they are
Someone who isn't ready to be vulnerable in front of others on the same path

No more letting the pattern decide for you.

It's time to actually practice something different.

THE BEAM MASTERMIND

A mastermind for growth-minded professionals who want to master healthy relationship skills without losing who they are.

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"The goal isn't a perfect relationship. It's becoming someone who doesn't have to shrink, perform, or over-give to feel worthy of one."

FAQ

Questions, answered.

No. BEAM is a mastermind and coaching community, not therapy or a substitute for it. We focus on practicing relationship skills in real time alongside people doing the same work.

You'll get instant access to the private Telegram channel, the resource library, and the call schedule. Your first call is usually within the week.

Yes. There are no long contracts. Cancel any time from your account — you'll keep access through the end of your billing cycle.

Growth-minded professionals who are self-aware, have done some inner work, and are ready to practice — not just consume more content about it.

That's normal. There's no pressure to share before you're ready. Many members listen for a few weeks first. The room is built to feel safe, not exposing.